Parents sometimes give advice because they see things differently, but their opinions shouldn’t make your decision for you. Listen carefully to what your boyfriend’s father says and ask yourself if any of his concerns are reasonable.
Talk with your boyfriend about the conversation. You should both understand each other’s goals and make sure you’re ready for marriage emotionally, financially, and practically.
Marriage is a lifelong commitment. If waiting a little longer helps both of you become more prepared, that isn’t necessarily a bad thing. Make the decision that’s best for the two of you, not just to please other people.