Okay I’m not gonna judge you for having multiple marriages because people make mistakes and sometimes you don’t know someone until you’re in it. But I do think you need to pause and really look at the pattern here. Two marriages didn’t work out, so what have you learned from them? Because if you keep doing the same thing, husband number three is gonna end up exactly like the first two.
What went wrong in your previous marriages? Was it the same type of guy both times? Did you ignore red flags because you wanted to be married so badly? Were you too young? Did you settle? You need to answer these questions honestly before you even think about walking down the aisle again. A third divorce would be way harder than taking time to figure yourself out first.
Also, there’s nothing wrong with being single while you work on yourself. Society puts so much pressure on women to be married but like, being unhappily married is way worse than being single and figuring things out. You don’t get a prize for being married three times by 35 or whatever. You just get more paperwork and more heartbreak.
If this new guy is really right for you, he’s not going anywhere while you take your time. A good man will understand that you’ve been through a lot and need to be careful. If he’s pushing you to rush into marriage, that’s actually a red flag itself. Protect your peace this time around.