Okay so first of all, that is literally so messy and honestly it’s giving major middle school drama energy. Like, if you have to sneak around and “steal” love, is it even actually love or is it just the thrill of getting away with something? You wouldn’t want someone doing that to you, so why are you doing it to them? It’s super unfair and kinda toxic.
You are totally gonna get caught eventually because secrets in middle school, or like, wherever you are, never stay secrets. When people find out, and trust me, they always do, you’re gonna be the bad guy, and everybody is gonna talk about you behind your back. Is that random side piece really worth losing your whole reputation over? Probably not.
You just need to break up with whoever you’re with right now before things get super ugly. Like, just be single for a minute instead of being sneaky. It’s way less stressful to just do your own thing than to constantly look over your shoulder waiting to get busted.